Henry Van Dyke
There is a better
thing than the observance of Christmas day,
and that is, keeping
Christmas.
Are you willing...
- to forget what you have done for other people, and to
remember what other people have done for you;
- to ignore what the world owes you, and to think what you owe
the world;
- to put your rights in the background, and your duties in the
middle distance, and your chances to do a little more than your
duty in the foreground;
- to see that men and women are just as real as you are, and
try to look behind their faces to their hearts, hungry for joy;
- to own up to the fact that probably the only good reason for
your existence is not what you are going to get out of life, but
what you are going to give to life;
- to close your book of complaints against the management of
the universe, and look around you for a place where you can sow
a few seeds of happiness.
Are you willing to do these things even for a day? Then you can
keep Christmas.
Are you willing...
- to stoop down and consider the needs and desires of little
children;
- to remember the weakness and loneliness of people growing
old;
- to stop asking how much your friends love you, and ask
yourself whether you love them enough;
- to bear in mind the things that other people have to bear in
their hearts;
- to try to understand what those who live in the same home
with you really want, without waiting for them to tell you;
- to trim your lamp so that it will give more light and less
smoke, and to carry it in front so that your shadow will fall
behind you;
- to make a grave for your ugly thoughts, and a garden for
your kindly feelings, with the gate open—
Are you willing to do these things, even for a day? Then you can
keep Christmas.
Are you willing...
- to believe that love is the strongest thing in the world—
- stronger than hate, stronger than evil, stronger than death—
- and that the blessed life which began in Bethlehem nineteen
hundred years ago is the image and brightness of the Eternal
Love?
Then you can keep Christmas.
And if you can keep it for a day, why not always?
But you can never keep it alone.
Six Days of the Week,
NY: Charles Scribner's Sons, 1924 and 1952.
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