Letter to a Young Man Entering Seminary
© July 2016, Fr. Brian
July 29, 2016
Greetings and peace!
A while back, your Dad asked me to write you a note of encouragement
as you prepare to enter the Diocesan Seminary Program. I
imagine the feelings you are experiencing about now are daunting and
thrilling. As I think back, I first met your Dad when he was only a
couple of years older than you are now.
Some years back I wrote a similar piece, at a mother's request, for a
young man preparing to celebrate his Bar Mitzvah. I titled it "Mazeltov!
Mordy," his real name by the way. You can read it here on my
Well, Raphael, hopefully God provides some inspiration for this piece
of writing. Reflecting on what to say, I started recalling when I was
heading off to the seminary and what guidance I was given, as well, as
what advice I picked up during my initial years of formation. I leafed
through the Bible that I prayed with early on noting the things I wrote
down on some blank pages. Hopefully, the following wisdom seeds will
fortify you during times of questioning and lead you further along the
journey of seeking wisdom and understanding in your discernment process.
So, let's begin with the first wisdom seed of sage advice from the
pastor emeritus at my parish when I asked him to write a letter of
reference for me to enter the TORs. He said, let me pass along this
wisdom I received from my pastor when I was preparing to leave for the
seminary: "When things are tough and looking doubt-filled, and you are
ready to pack it in and go home, first, pack your bags, then wait for
the following Friday before leaving." Simple, eh!
There were several times I had my bags packed, just waiting, but each
time by the following Friday somehow the dark cloud of confusion or
angst lifted. Maybe it was in those times, the Light found a way to
penetrate the shadows of my stubbornness. At times, I felt it was a
I began reading Scripture prior to entering the seminary, but was
haphazard in my direction. This time I decided to read God's Word in its
entirety. I thought if I was going to be preaching it might be good to
be very familiar with the Book. Plus, it would be cool to be able to
answer someone when they might ask, "And, so, have you read the Bible,
cover to cover?" And I could say, "Why, yes, I have." I've read through
it now two-and-a-half times.
There was a verse from the Book of Sirach that was a God-sent anchor
through many a stormy times during those years of formation. So this is
my second wisdom seed to pass along to you:
Book of Sirach 2:1–9 (NAB)
"My son, when you come to serve the Lord,
prepare yourself for trials.
Be sincere of heart and steadfast,
undisturbed in time of adversity.
Cling to him, forsake him not;
thus will your future be great.
Accept whatever befalls you,
in crushing misfortune be patient;
For in fire gold is tested,
and worthy men in the crucible of humiliation.
Trust God and he will help you;
make straight your ways and hope in him.
You who fear the Lord, wait for his mercy,
turn not away lest you fall.
You who fear the Lord, trust him,
and your reward will not be lost.
You who fear the Lord, hope for good things,
for lasting joy and mercy."
I started referring to this verse as The Prayer for Novices and
passed it along to many others over the years. Find it in your Bible and
mark its place with a Post-It Note®. I'm sure you will turn to it often
for comfort and strength during your times of "troubled waters."
In preparation for reading the Bible, I would recite a brief prayer
that helped me focus my thoughts and opened my heart to listen to God's
Word speak to me. Later on, I found out I was praying a variation of the
prayer known as
"St. Francis Prayer to Discern God's Will
Said Before The Crucifix"
"Most High, glorious God,
enlighten the darkness of my heart,
and give me right faith, certain
hope, and perfect charity,
sense and knowledge, Lord,
that I may
carry out your holy and true command.
This is a prayer of expectation, Raphael, expecting God to respond to
you. I've found that God oftentimes does meet us in our expectations,
though seldom in our wistful wishes. This, then, is the third wisdom
seed I'm passing along.
My Bible Reading Plan consisted of reading one chapter from an Old
Testament book before Morning Prayer; then one chapter before Evening
Prayer from a New Testament book. I recommend that you begin with your
favorite books to get started, e.g., Proverbs, Psalms and the Letters of
John; leave Judges, Chronicles, Lamentations and Revelations until the
end, just so you can say, yes, I read the Bible cover-to-cover.
You only need 20 minutes to prayerfully read the text – the
introduction page for each book I considered like a chapter. Underline,
highlight passages that catch your attention, then with remaining time
"sit under" what you just read and let it speak to you in silence. Here
you might want to have a prayer journal – those black and white
composition notebooks work best – where you can put the date, the verse
number and those thoughts that come to you that you want to recall later
It took me about a year and a half to read the Bible cover to cover
with this method. And the second time through God's Word, I heard so
many different things than I had the first time. The Word is always new
and God will speak, when we learn to be still and listen. Over time, I
put together my thoughts on ways of studying Scripture:
4 Ways to Study Scripture:
- Informational – gathering of facts and information;
- Inspirational – the Word begins to stir in one's spirit, elevating
- Incarnational – the Word becomes personal and spreads roots in
- Transformational – the Word begins to produce fruit in one's daily
life. As Jesus said, "My mother and my brothers are those who hear the
word of God and act on it" (Lk 8:21, NAB, RE).
Hmm, seems this is the fourth wisdom seed. We might get a real garden
going pretty soon!
Actually, Raphael, you might consider writing down the quotations,
stories, or whatever you come across in your readings that you might
want to save and recall, or use later on in a homily or retreat. One of
our friars suggested this to me early on in formation. He said your
memory just isn't that good and you will forget what it was or from
where you read it. By the way, it turns out Fr. Gus was quite correct on
that matter. Well, I did start writing down those quotations and stories
that deeply spoke to me; now I have 63 volumes filled up with more to
come. You will find a lot of these wisdom seeds on my website:
One of the early quotes, from volume 1 of my journals, is known as
"The Merton Prayer" by the late Trappist monk Thomas Merton:
"My Lord God,
I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I cannot know for certain where it will end.
nor do I really know myself,
and the fact that I think I am following your will
does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that the desire to please you
does in fact please you.
And I hope I have that desire in all that
I am doing.
I hope that I will never do anything apart from
And I know that if I do this you will lead me by
the right road,
though I may know nothing about it.
Therefore will I trust you always though
I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death.
I will not fear, for you are ever with me,
and you will never leave me to face my perils alone."
This fifth wisdom seed will see you through many confusing times when
you will seem to be lost and not sure which is the path to follow.
One day, I was speaking with Fr. Gus – your father can tell you many
Fr. Gus tales – and he handed me an index card that he discovered on his
desk that morning. He had no idea how it got there but was sure that it
was meant for me. Its content is on page 2 of my first journal, written
by the poet Rainer Maria Rilke, and titled "Be Patient":
"I want to beg you as much as I can, to be patient to all that is
unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves…Do not
seek now answers which cannot be given you because you would not be able
to live with them.
And the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps
you will then someday without knowing it live along gradually into the
Take whatever comes with great trust, and if only it comes out of
your own will, out of some need of your innermost being, take it into
yourself…and hate nothing."
This sixth wisdom seed I have used so many times over the years, and
have passed it along to students who are teeming with so many questions;
however they just may not be ready for the answers – Be patient,
Raphael, live the questions now!
The seventh wisdom seed is one of my favorites that helps guide me
along life's journey. It is from the esteemed Pope Saint John XXIII:
"Consult not your fears but your hopes and dreams,
Think not about your frustrations
but about your unfulfilled
Concern yourself not with what you tried
and failed in,
but with what it is possible for you to do."
Raphael, so often it is our fears, frustrations and failures that
hold us back, they are our unfulfilled potential. Instead, look to your
hopes and dreams, and, always, what is possible for you to do.
Finally, when you are reading God's Word, carefully listen to it and
a power verse might pop off the page and stare you in the face. Take
this Word, plant it in your heart and let it bear abundant fruit.
The eighth wisdom seed is my power verse which God planted in my
heart over 35 years ago that provides still the vision that fills me
with a sense of meaning and purpose. It is from St. Paul's 1st letter to
1 Thess. 5:11, 13, 15-18 (RSV)
"Encourage one another; build one another up.
Be at peace among yourselves…
Always seek to do good to one another…
Rejoice always, pray constantly,
Give thanks in all circumstances;
For this is God's will in Christ Jesus for you."
Raphael, I will pray that God inspires you with your own power verse;
one that will instill a vision to fill you with a sense of meaning and
In closing, Raphael, as you begin your great adventure, I leave you
with this blessing:
May God guide you and guard you; protect you in safety
May God enlighten you with wisdom and understanding, and
May God grant you every grace and blessing you will need to face the
challenges of this day.
In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Peace and Blessings!
Fr. Brian, TOR